Avoiding the Trap of Perfectionism

If you want to never be happy or satisfied with your life, one great way to do that is to raise your expectations to an unrealistically high standard that can never possibly be met. This is the essence of perfectionism. It’s the inability to be happy with something until it is perfect, without any flaws whatsoever. Of course, the problem with this mind-set is that perfectionism is often an illusion. Life rarely works out exactly the way we want, in any domain – whether it’s relationships, work, or goals. Many times being more happy with your life requires that you let go of these expectations and learn to be more content with how things are, rather than how you picture they should be in an “ideal world.” Often times, a more practical and realistic attitude prepares you for the inevitable road bumps in life. And it’s better to prepare yourself for reality than to live in delusion.

To be truly happy, we need to switch from having a perfectionist mind-set, to a growth mind-set instead. This attitude understands and accepts that life is a process of ups and downs, and we are constantly learning and growing from these experiences. Unlike the perfectionist, the growth-oriented person doesn’t see their happiness or success in any area of a life as a “fixed place.” Instead, it’s a never-ending journey. In many ways, perfectionism is the opposite of growth and happiness. It stagnates us and keeps us both stuck and unsatisfied. To truly be happy, we need to first learn to let go of our unrealistically high expectations about life.



Creator Academy has a wide range of personal development courses available, all geared to helping our students make long-lasting and positive changes to how they live their lives. Transform your mind-set to one of success, and you will see a significant improvement in every facet of your life.

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